Simple. When I was 14, I was dating a 22 year old. I consented to everything. Sometimes we got into fights, as normal people do. The relationship became a little abusive just because I isolated myself from all my friends and that’s just the way it happened. Is he an abuser?…
A summary of this post:
'This one time when I was 14 I dated an older guy so I'm qualified to determine that this person (who I don't actually know) who was also in an age-gap relationship is lying about being abused'
(Mate stop trying to tell someone how their experience played out because of how your experience played out)